the weirdest things that were asked during their rishta meeting!

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the weirdest things that were asked during their rishta meeting!

                           THE WEIRDEST THINGS THAT WERE ASKED DURING THEIR RISHTA MEETING! (by hitesh verma)                                                                              

RISHATA  basically a relation. It can be of blood like that of a father –son or it can be of other type like that of a friend. Does it really mean a feel  of truth. Due to a certain level of modernisation in metropolitian cities  lead to a certain high level of ambitions among indivduals for their life partner. Everyone wanted their life patner to be perfect in everything. He/she should  earn a minimum six digit salary,have attaractive looks,  good personality  good  family background. But do they look upon  themselves  at what level do they stand?nowdays every father wanted to marry their daughter to house of that of ‘singhanias’. But do there daughter actually deserves that guy? Nowdays people say “we are searching for someone who earns more than 20 lakhs and comes from well to do family.my daughter is a independent girl  and the husband should  not interfere with her personal  belongings like salary” means that they have done engineering but want  a job as that of an accountant! Nowdays people say that they don’t want anything as in dowry but the tilak ceremony should be grand!  Although the whole blame cannot be but onto the bride side. Some grooms put restrictions on the bride side   like quitting jobs and so basic household chores and to work for the so called “boy king”.  nowdays rishtas has became a showoff. That’s why 7 percent of arrange marriage leads to a divorce.people judge other people on the basis of wealth and not on social qualities like attiquates, sincerity, humbleness.rishtas should not be done by judging someones wealth but my mutual understanding  betweeen them.They must  opt for a livein order to understand themselves in a better way.

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