Her BFF is Prince Charming

Posted 6 years ago in LIFESTYLE.

9 Things Every Girl Goes Through When Her BFF Is Prince Charming

Her BFF is Prince Charming

Its hard enough having a male best friend in today's world, but if he resembles a Greek God then that just takes the complications to a whole new level. Not for you of course, for you its a simple friendship; but for those around you who simply can't digest that there is not more to the relationship than what meets the eye.

Here are the nine most common things a girl has to go through:

  No Awkward "Getting to know You" Conversations

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What is your favorite movie? How many siblings do you have? Where did you grow up? Sometimes, dating feels like a cruel game of "20 Questions." When you date a guy who is already your friend, you can skip the small talk. Since you already know your guy’s interests, the two of you can jump into more serious conversations early on.

  Your Friends already Love him

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As much as you may like a guy, he won’t make the cut without your friends’ seal of approval. Unless your potential beau has serious beef with your besties, there is a good chance that your buddies already know and like him. At the same time, you won’t have to worry about if your boyfriend’s friends like you. 

  You will feel free to be Yourself

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While a girl rarely says no to a romantic dinner or movie outing with a new guy, these dates can carry a lot of pressure with them. What is the dress code for that super trendy French place? Who pays?  What should you order (a burger is too messy while guys sometimes pity the girl who orders the salad)?  When you’re dating your best guy friend, you can finally relax and just enjoy hanging out with him.

  It may change the Dynamic in your Social Circle

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Just because Monica and Chandler’s group wasn’t hindered by their relationship in Friends (thank you, television gods) doesn’t necessarily mean yours will be the same. No matter how much you like a guy, spending time with just your friends is crucial.

  Your risk loosing your Friendship 

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Let us be honest: staying good friends with an ex is extremely difficult. Whether you broke his heart or he was the one who left you crushed, grabbing lunch and catching up with an old flame is never fun. Unfortunately, this unhappy ending doesn’t change when you are dating a friend.

  Jealousy. Lots of it

You have hit the jackpot. Won the lottery. Got the best deal. So people can't help but feel a pang of envy every time they see you.

  You get treated like royalty when he is around

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You may be in freaking pajamas at a party and you will be able to get away with it while you are his plus one. And that is a serious blessing when you don't want to put in the effort but still want to have a life.

  You are interrogated about why you guys have not gotten together already

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The most obvious and the most annoying thing to hear of them all. Funny thing, whether you have been besties for one year, or ten, you can never get away from how puzzled people are by the lack of sexual attraction between the two of you. Its unfathomable. Especially if you are still single.

  You learn to value what is inside more than just the outer appearance

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Eventually, there comes a point when you don't really notice his physical features as such. You know he is good looking, but that is at the back of your mind and a is factor which you steadily become oblivious to over a period of time. Your bond runs deeper than that and eventually this trait starts to reflect in your other relationships as well. Your subconscious understands that beauty has nothing to do with the soul.

 

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Sumit Chakraborty

Living in India

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