Dear men, if you’re doing these 8 things with women, check yourself now

Posted 6 years ago in LIFESTYLE.

You may be the centre of attention with your boys but when with you are with women, you need to maintain that etiquette and when that fails, women instantly gets turned off and these might be the 8 things that we as men do that are ruining our relationship with other women.

Dear men, if you’re doing these 8 things with women, check yourself now

1. POOR PERSONAL HYGIENE:

                Never forget these top things that women notice every time when they are with other men; their dress code, their groomed face, their way of carrying themselves and proper hygiene. If any of these things are out of place, then you could be losing that date you wanted.

2. BEING A HARDCORE NARCISSIST:

                The importance that you give to visual perception is fine and your game is good, but there is a point where we give too much importance that we look like we don’t care about what is happening around us and we become the centre of attraction. Instead, avoid this and stop adjusting and admiring yourself when you are with women.

3. TALK BAD ABOUT THEIR EX-GIRLFRIEND:

                This sometimes includes not talking about your ex at all. Any woman can judge a man’s maturity and manhood when he touches this area and you if constantly brag about how honest you were and how cold-hearted she was, it just won’t work out and you will end up as a boy in the midst of mature women.

4. RUDE BEHAVIOUR:

                If you respect the women you like, and trash talk and treat cashiers, waitresses and assistants in offices, etc. in a rude manner, then your woman will not be impressed and instead she might walk away from you.

5. BEING JEALOUS AND INSECURE:

                There is not better thing to do to show that you haven’t matured since 8th grade is being insecure and constantly talking about the guy that she was just having a conversation with. Stop being jealous and insecure and keep those issues with your boys who can give a solution and not with the woman who expects a perfect time with you.

6. STALKING AND GOING THROUGH THEIR PROPERTY:

                Yes, she is not your girlfriend but that doesn’t mean that she has to reveal her password and you have the command over her phone call log, her message history and her social accounts. You just don’t, and the same applies for women as well.

7. BEING AN AWFUL LISTENER:

                Engage gentlemen, it is more important than most other things for her. Stop checking your phone when she is talking and listen patiently to what she says even if the conversation goes for hours. It will be hard, so interrupt in the middle with questions related to that and don’t try to divert because they could get serious turned off.

8.  BEING AWKWARD IN BED: 

          

                There are a lot of things that women and men hate that each other do in their private space, men being the majority of them. Stick to the basics and don’t let the intimacy become an issue. Their preferences vary a lot, where some want us to be dominant and take it slow where some like it to be sensual. Either way, don’t do anything awkward and spoil both of your moods.

 

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Yuvaraj R

Living in India

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