12 reasons why our girlfriends are our knights in shining armour

SHE ACCEPTS YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE:

                This rule goes for both of them and since we talk about women, there is an additional emphasis to this point, as men who are fat, who have darker skin color and even too ripped and fit may end up not being perfect and break up with them. The perfect woman does not care how fat or shy or dark you are, she is in love with you, the complete you.

SHE ENCOURAGES YOUR PROGRESS:

                Just like every other man, every woman has her road to travel and milestones to cross and the perfect girlfriend is one who not only concentrates on herself but also cheers your progress in life and provides the necessary support even if you end up homeless and broke.

MAKES TIME FOR YOU:

                In her pursuit filled with hustle, she will not let her office environment suck all her valuable time for family and so she never forgets to spend quality time with you and does not become a femi-nazi and complain that you never let her work.

SHES THE SAME, NO MATTER HOW MANY YEARS PASS BY:

                This happens in a long distance relationship. The clothing, the ascent, the physical attributes might change which is fine but it is not delightful if she is not the same girl that you have dated and been in love all these years. She should treat you the same way she treated you all those years of togetherness and that’s a prime sign of a true girlfriend.

SHE IS NOT JEALOUS:

                Some women will not agree with this, but they gossip a lot, and do get jealous at most of the times. If she has no issue with whom you are talking to, if she has no suspicion about your new co-worker at office and believes in you, she is the perfect one.

SHE IS NOT AN ATTENTION SEEKER:

                As men, it is our duty, to give genuine compliments to our women, when they deserve it. But this doesn’t mean that she has to spend all her money on makeup for that evening date and squeeze you to praise her of her beauty and be an attention seeking retard.

SHE HAS HER OWN OPINIONS:

                A mature girlfriend shows signs of having her own opinions and has no issues putting them forward. Be it on a night out, or a movie, she might have her own picks and at the same time will respect your opinion and take it to consideration.

SHE WON’T ACT AS IF SHE HAD A PANIC ATTACK:

                We as people will have situations where we feel mediocre when compared to others and this is a trait that we want to get rid of as soon as possible and if your girlfriend does not want to complain about what her boss did, or her colleague did, and spoil a good time together, she understands a lot about you.

SHE HIDES NOTHING FROM YOU:

                This is where we get suspicious and anxious, if she makes up an excuse and you can identify it, she may be cheating on you. Instead, she has no worries of sharing her good and bad moments of her day and hides nothing from you whatever it is and wherever it lies on the spectrum.

SHE KNOWS HOW TO SURPRISE YOU:

                Men won’t get too excited for things that are too common and even our friends fail to impress us at the crucial moments. But not your woman and she should know how to pull off a surprise. Be it your anniversary or your birthday, she should be ready and unpredictable at the same time, and you won’t see that coming.

SHE POINTS OUT YOUR MISTAKES AND FLAWS:

                This should not be confused with the first aspect, as she accepts you for who you are. In your life, she has a key role to play and she needs to point out if you go on the wrong track. She acts as a guide and a mentor in your life and does not hesitate to uncover your mistakes in life.

YOUR FAMILY LIKES HER:

                It either becomes a scenario where your parents may like her but your friends may not or your friends may like her and your dad may not. This balance is very important as the two groups of people come till the end and your girlfriend should be in harmony with both the spheres.